Tayt’s Journey: A Fight for Quality Time
I wanted to share an update, especially after my last post about Tayt and his battle. It’s been a difficult few weeks, and I want to let you all in on what’s been happening since then.
Tayt has completed his 6 weeks of chemotherapy, and unfortunately, the results weren’t what we had hoped for. It appears that the chemotherapy didn’t have any effect on his condition. We’ve had more tests done, and now, Tayt is facing another biopsy of his bladder to determine if the cancer has spread into the muscle. The situation has grown even more complicated, and the outlook isn’t promising.
For Chrissy, this has meant navigating a maze of medical decisions and trying to hold it all together. As hard as this journey is, it reminds us of why we made the decision to move to Dallas in the first place: quality over quantity. We’ve found ourselves leaning on this mindset more than ever as we face these tough times.
But there’s a side to this fight that’s often unseen by others—the strain it’s placing on Tayt and Chrissy. Tayt is exhausted, hurting, and understandably angry. The hardest part is watching the mental and emotional toll it takes on him, making every appointment feel like a battle just to get him there. His frustration is growing. At a recent appointment, he even yelled at Chrissy in front of doctors and nurses, unleashing words that were harsh and painful. It’s heartbreaking to see someone so full of anger and pain, and it’s even harder knowing that Chrissy is on the receiving end of it. The mental weight of all of this is indescribable.
Over the last few months, I’ve been carrying a camera everywhere. I’ve been documenting the good, the bad, and the ugly of our everyday life. It’s been a way to capture the moments, the emotions, and the reality of what we’re all going through. And now, as the holidays approach, it feels even harder to find joy and peace. The shadow of uncertainty hangs over everything. But we’re trying to make the best of it, despite the darkness.
We recently had a meeting with Oncology and Radiology about a new treatment that’s become available. While it’s a small glimmer of hope, we’re trying not to get our hopes too high. Tayt will be undergoing 20 radiation sessions, one each day from Monday to Friday, along with one chemotherapy session each week for the next four weeks. We’re bracing for some tough times ahead, as the side effects can be brutal, but we just don’t know how it will affect him yet.
Logistically, it’s been a challenge too. Driving to Dallas every day, sometimes for multiple days in a row, is draining. We’re trying to figure out how to balance this with work and all the financial responsibilities that come with treatment. It’s overwhelming, and every day is a bit of a struggle.
If you feel moved to help in any way, we’ve set up a GoFundMe page to help with medical expenses and daily challenges. Any support is deeply appreciated: Link HERE
Thank you for sticking with us and reading this update. It’s not easy to share, but it’s important to keep you all informed.
Lastly, hug your loved ones tight. Reach out to those you care about. Life can change in an instant, and you never know when it might be the last chance you get to hold them close.